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Benevolence
10/16/07 

 I walked into Round Rock Hooters and ordered myself and my driver 2 burgers and fries to go.  I was in a lackadaisical mood searching for the semblence of a real conversation even if it meant getting into an argument... That's the simple truth about HOW I was feeling. 
 
I am coming to realize that perhaps real argument is better than fake happinesses all day long... Maybe.

As I was waiting for my order I noticed 2 soldiers sitting together engrossed in conversation already eating their food.  One of them had good taste because he had ordered fried pickles.
 
I love the fried pickles...

I asked the bartender to tell me WHO was waiting on the soldiers and inquired if those soldiers had paid their bill.  
 
The waitress told me that there was a couple sitting in the high-table area that had beaten me to the punch and planned to pick up their tab.
 
Do you people know how RARE it is to meet other benevolent good samaritan-like people ?  Trust me, it's RARE.

It is equally important to realize that I saw the movie GAME PLAN last week and I agree with Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson's character when he refused to say "No", refused to accept defeat no matter the odds or circumstances. 
 
I am like that in so many arenas of my life.  I have no quit in me.  When I start something I make every effort to finish it.
 
So when the waitress told me that the couple had beaten me, I failed to accept it and instantaneously decided that I would pick up THEIR tab as well as the soldier's. 
 
I whipped out my credit card and immediately proceeded to make it happen.  After all the slips were signed, all the tips were added and after the manager over-rode the computer, I walked over to the tall table and introduced myself to Dick and Bettye Wilson, shaking each of their hands and looking them directly in their eyes to tell them WHY I was treating them and WHY I wasn't allowing THEM to treat the soldiers... Today. 
 
I did it for honor and benevolence as well as just because I could.
 
I did it for theirs, the soldiers and mine.

After getting my burgers, as I was heading out the door, Dick shook my hand again and smilingly said' "You know Ron, I'm going to get you back for your treat."  I smiled back responding, "I doubt I'll ever let you."
 
I am sure it's never happened TO the Wilsons before, just like it has rarely ever happened TO me.  It felt good treating them and those soldiers, it felt RIGHT amongst a growing sea of WRONGS and I harbor no regrets for treating strangers with love and benevolence.  NONE.
 
Ingrained in my character, despite all the other things I do, I still find ways to show love and I thank God for the opportunities that He has given me to be an Episcopalian in my own quirky way.